With the click of a key, bullies are humiliating their peers. What are schools doing to tame this behavior?
By Amanda Paulson | Staff writer of The Christian Science MonitorFor one middle-school girl it was a rumor, circulated via text messaging, that she had contracted SARS while on a trip to Toronto. She returned to school and found nobody would come near her.
For an overweight boy in Japan, it was cellphone pictures, taken of him on the sly while he was changing in the locker room and then sent to many of his peers.
And for Calabasas High School in California, it was a website – schoolscandals.com – on which vicious gossip and racist and threatening remarks grew so rampant that most of the school was affected.
The actions themselves – rumors, threats, gossip, humiliation – are nothing new. But among today’s adolescents – a generation of instant messengers, always connected, always wired – bullies are starting to move beyond slam books and whisper campaigns to e-mail, websites, chat rooms, and text messaging.
While in some ways it’s no worse than old-fashioned bullying, cyberbullying has a few idiosyncrasies. Websites and screen names give bullies a mask of anonymity if they wish it, making them difficult to trace.
The pressure for kids to be always online means bullies can extend their harassment into their victims’ homes.
And the miracle of the Web means that sharing an embarrassing photo or private note – with thousands of people – requires little more than the click of a key.
“It used to be if something happened at school, someone made a joke about you, or said something in front of you, that was horrible enough,” says Glenn Stutzky, instructor in Michigan State University’s School of Social Work. Read the whole story.
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